Join Peter for a pint (Natasha is just at the bar for a sec) to talk about his circumcision and circumcising his two sons.
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Peter
8/5/2020 08:23:32 pm
Hi everyone. My circumcision story is up in the locker room now - take a look. Peter
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British Edward
9/5/2020 11:09:51 am
Hello Peter,
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Peter
9/5/2020 11:14:56 am
Hi British Edward. Really glad you liked our story. Yes, our boys are circumcised high and tight. We found a very good private circumciser who was happy to do it that way. We are delighted with the results. P & N
Danny
9/5/2020 03:05:46 pm
Hi Peter. Thanks for sharing your story. I was wondering if you think guys cut high and tight are able to get more sensitivity in their dicks than those cut low and tight.
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Peter
9/5/2020 03:10:36 pm
Hi Danny. I think a high circumcision is probably more sensitive as it retains more of the inner skin. My sensitivity also became more pleasurable in the frenulum area after having that removed, suggesting that the area under the frenulum is more sensitive than the frenulum itself. P
Jez
10/5/2020 11:55:01 am
Hi Peter & Natasha
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Peter
10/5/2020 12:06:09 pm
Hi Jez. I don’t know if our discussions have directly influenced anyone to circumcise their kids. But there is one other circumcision we may have played a small part in. We were on holiday at a naturist site in France last year. There were some other British families there who we’ve known for years. One evening we were socialising in the bar with another couple of families and our daughter (who was 14 then) suddenly said, “So why did you decide not to circumcise your sons?” After a shocked silence one of the mums said that they weren’t Jewish. Our girl said, “Nor are we.” We explained why we’d circumcised our boys and one of the other lads there (who was 17) said that he thought it looked nicer. He and our eldest went off and had a good chat. It turned out he’d wanted to be circumcised for years. He plucked up the guts to tell his parents and they arranged for him to be circumcised later in the year. He’s very happy with it.
Sean
10/5/2020 06:27:32 pm
Lovely story Pete, regarding your son sharing his experience with his friend. A slightly similar thing happened to me on a naturist site in France, you know the big one in the South. Back in the 80s and 90s we had regular family holidays there with our two young daughters. We would go and the same time each year and often regularly met a German couple who happened to come for the same two weeks. On one occasion while walking along the beach together the German Guy said to me I notice you are circumcised, may I ask why. I explained that I had had it done about 10 years earlier for a recurring foreskin problem. As you can see, he said, I have a long foreskin which causes me some issues. We discussed the merits and he decided that he would do something about it on his return to Germany. Whether he did or not I don’t know as that was our last visit. The site was beginning to have seedy undertones which rather spoilt the family atmosphere so we decided to look for other locations for future holidays, unfortunately we lost touch and I never found out if he had joined our club, I rather hope he has as a result of us talking like your son and his friend.
Peter
10/5/2020 07:10:14 pm
Hi Sean. Your story is lovely too. I really hope that the German guy got circumcised. I know of the site you mention but I’ve never been there.
Marc Allan
11/5/2020 01:45:24 pm
Great story Pete, lucky you. I wasn't circumcised till my partner wanted it in my thirties. Much better with our heads fully bared. Cleaner, more hygienic, better looking and sexier. Well done cutting your sons. We don't have any kids yet but we've already agreed any boys will be tightly cut and frenums excised.
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Peter
11/5/2020 01:50:34 pm
Hi Marc. Glad you liked our story. What a sensible partner you have! How did she approach you about getting circumcised and how did you feel about it? And was it traditional in her family? You have made an excellent decision in circumcising your future sons - well done. P
Todd
4/7/2020 02:47:10 pm
Hey Pete, I really enjoyed reading your testimony and story of you and the families journey.
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Peter
6/7/2020 05:12:10 pm
Thanks Todd. Glad you enjoyed it, and very flattered that you’ve read it twice! P
Hans Wermhat
4/10/2022 03:05:01 am
Did you ever stop re reading it?
Nick
10/11/2020 04:50:16 pm
Hi Simon. A few questions will reveal the type of cut you have. When soft, is there any skin covering part of the head, or bunched up on the shaft? If you pull the skin forward when soft, and when hard, how much of the head can you cover? How far is your circumcision scar behind the rim of the head when soft and hard? If your scar is faint and difficult to see, there is usually a distinct colour change going from the inner foreskin remnant to the shaft skin: the inner skin is paler.
Peter
10/11/2020 05:11:33 pm
Hi Simon. You can google naturist beaches and clubs. If you can’t find one nearby it is worth contacting a club and asking if they know of any unofficial naturist beaches. There are quite a few where nudity is tolerated even if the beach itself isn’t an official naturist beach. P
Paul
6/4/2021 10:08:10 am
Hi Pete and Natasha, I was circumcised last year at the age of 44. I was circumcised on the advice of my urologist due to recurrent balanitis which was causing phimosis. For 7 or 8 years previous to this i had thought about circumcision but always let ideas about reduced sensitivity etc stop me. Anyway it was kind of taken out of my hand, although it is elective, I needed the problem fixing. I had it done o the nhs and I am a grower so i was cut just beneath the head. I am really glad the decision was made for me. I love the feel! Having read about you and your family I now wonder if I should have gone for a tighter cut. I do like the face I have movement in the shift when masturbating though.
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James
9/5/2020 03:43:42 pm
Interesting to hear you spoke to your sons about their circumcisions.
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Peter
9/5/2020 05:18:17 pm
Hi James. If parents elect to circumcise their children then I think it is imperative that they talk to them about their reasons for doing so. Our boys have grown up always knowing that their penises are circumcised and look different to most of their friends’. They are happy being very tight - they think it looks a lot nicer with no loose skin and I have told them how sensations improved for me after my revision. Peter
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James
9/5/2020 08:59:04 pm
How were you able to specify to the doctor to have them done super tight? Where did you go in the UK to have it done for them and yourself?
Nick
10/11/2020 09:37:59 pm
Hi Simon. It would be good to get other opinions, but I would say you have a moderately tight cut. How much skin movement do you have when hard? Whether you have a high or low cut depends on how close the cut line is to the rim of the glans.
Peter
9/5/2020 09:07:18 pm
I spoke to a few circumcisers on the phone and said that we wanted our eldest high and tight with frenulum removed. One of them said that would be no problem. He was also the one with the best reviews. So we went for him. The same man circumcised our younger boy. We were lucky - he retired about a week later. Obviously it can’t be guaranteed what it will look like after puberty but fortunately they are still very tight. They were circumcised in London, as was I for my revision, but I had a different guy.
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James
9/5/2020 10:58:19 pm
It wasn't Dr Zarifa by any chance?
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Peter
9/5/2020 11:03:10 pm
We can’t remember the name - sorry. He was Asian so it may have been Dr Zarifa. Do you know him?
James
9/5/2020 11:15:52 pm
I don't know him but I know of him. He retired around the time I had my circumcision done. 5/8/2022 05:13:51 am
Hi James, was that the Thornhill Clinic in Luton?
Nick
10/11/2020 11:18:15 pm
Hi Simon, I would say you have a moderately tight, low cut. I am cut low too, but a bit tighter than you: I can't pull the skin over the glans even when soft. I too get a lot of enjoyment from wanking and I am happy with all the pleasure my circumcised dick gives me. I don't know if it is more enjoyable with a foreskin or not as I was cut aged two.
Peter
9/5/2020 11:19:45 pm
Well our boys were circumcised in 2003 and 2007. Would those dates match? N x
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James
9/5/2020 11:21:23 pm
No idea, I was cut in 2009 and he was still practicing then
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Joe Perth
10/5/2020 01:10:12 am
Great story Peter, thanks for sharing. Any reason why only you were circumcised and not your siblings?
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Peter
10/5/2020 06:52:25 am
Hi Joe. My brothers are older than me. My mum was a nurse so I’m guessing that she heard colleagues talking up circumcision some time between the births of my brothers and me.
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Alan
11/5/2020 06:35:56 am
Great story there, what method of circumcision did your boys have? Must look very neat having them circumcised at such a young age
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Peter
11/5/2020 08:39:12 am
Hi Andy. Thanks for your comments. I can’t actually remember the method used to circumcise the boys. I have freehand in my mind but I’m not sure that’s used with infants - probably getting confused with my revision. They did look very neat but no more than they do now.
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Dan Aust.
11/5/2020 10:55:04 am
Hi Peter
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Peter
11/5/2020 11:00:53 am
Hi Dan. Thank you for your lovely comments. It was a total no-brainer to have our boys circumcised. As you say, it is very important that boys feel that they can talk about circumcision with their father. Why was your father not keen to circumcise you? Peter
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Dan
11/5/2020 11:10:37 am
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Natasha
11/5/2020 11:14:05 am
Hey Dan. I’d like to thank you loads too for your words on us circumcising the boys. I’d just like to add to Pete’s comments: it’s also really important that boys can discuss circumcision with their mums and siblings. Our girl is 15 and she and I are always keen to discuss the merits of circumcision. Sorry you weren’t circumcised at birth. I bet your penis looks great now though 😊 Tash x
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Graham
2/7/2020 07:13:14 am
Hi Natasha, I got circumcised when I was 22 for reasons of health, hygiene and improved appearance. I am the first to be circumcised in my family, as far as I know. When my girlfriend (who I later married) and I first had sex, she had not known I was circ'd until she reached below the bedcovers and tried to pull my foreskin back. The look of puzzlement then surprise was priceless. The penny dropped and she then took a look and said it looked 'very neat' which made my day. We later had twins and decided to leave our sons intact but one had a medically required circumcision at 3. How old were your boys when they were done, how did you find a circumciser and what was the reaction to your decision by other family members?
Natasha
2/7/2020 12:47:50 pm
Hey Graham. That’s great that you got circumcised. Like your girlfriend it was a bit of a shock to me when I first saw Pete’s penis. “Where’s the skin?” But Pete told me what to do and I thought it looked so so beautiful.
Steve
11/5/2020 12:19:27 pm
Hi Natasha,
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Natasha
11/5/2020 01:16:30 pm
Hey Steve. Ooh where to start? Women should definitely try and experience circumcised men. It looks better and feels better, especially for oral and anal. It tastes and smells nicer. I would tell them to listen to their blokes about masturbation. It is different to pulling a foreskin back and forth but it’s not difficult to learn. I would tell them the benefits of infant circumcision. And of course I would tell them that Pete and the boys are circumcised.
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Natasha
11/5/2020 03:36:15 pm
Hey Steve. I forgot to say that I’d tell the lasses that once they’d got hold of a circumcised bloke then they should tell everyone about him and how proud they are of his dick! 😁 xx
Steve
2/5/2021 01:53:25 pm
Thanks Natasha.
Rachel
11/5/2020 09:51:13 pm
I have 2 questions. How can I persuade my boyfriend to get circumcised? I think circumcised penises are more attractive and more hygienic. But my boyfriend says his foreskin is sensitive and gives him sexual pleasure which he doesn’t want to lose.
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Peter & Natasha
11/5/2020 10:32:27 pm
Hi Rachel. This is a difficult one. You are clearly correct in stating that circumcised penises are more hygienic and attractive. I would try and find as many examples as possible of men who are pleased that they were circumcised as adults. Gather together their stories of how much better they feel since being circumcised and show him the evidence. A website like this one is a good place to start but there are others as well. Hopefully other guys here will have suggestions. Good luck. Peter
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Rachel
12/5/2020 07:44:38 am
Hi both. Thanks for the reply. It is going to take some work to persuade my other half to part with his foreskin. When he says his foreskin gives him lots of feeling and pleasure do you think that is true or is he saying that as an excuse not to have a circumcision? He agrees circumcised dicks look better and are cleaner but keeps saying he doesn’t want to lose sexual pleasure. I am interested in having a labiaplasty to give my labia a trim. It seems the equivalent of male circumcision. If I can persuade Matt to get rid of his foreskin I’ll definitely get a labiaplasty too.
Natasha
12/5/2020 07:57:53 am
Hey Rachel. Thanks for getting back to us. The inner foreskin is more erogenous than the outer foreskin. If a high circumcision is performed most of the inner skin is retained, so maybe look into that. Pete still has some inner skin and he’s very sensitive there. We chose for the boys’ circumcisions to be high precisely for that point. It would mean a scar about halfway down the shaft and a possible two-tone appearance but we think that looks really smart. Probably also worth reminding him that a loss of sensitivity will mean that he will last for longer.
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Rachel
12/5/2020 01:17:47 pm
Has Pete’s glans still got sensitivity or has it dulled? Matt says he’s sure his glans would lose sensitivity if it is rubbing against his boxers all day. If there is a reduction in sensitivity do guys still have the option to cum quickly if they want, or is it always a much longer session to get a climax?
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Natasha
12/5/2020 01:37:10 pm
Hey Rachel. Pete’s glans penis still has a lot of sensitivity. It’s hard to tell if he’s ever lost any as he’s been circumcised all his life. It’s probably less sensitive than one covered with skin. I can wank it quite hard with no lube and it doesn’t hurt him. Pete can cum quickly sometimes but that usually means being very physical.
Paul
7/10/2021 10:06:41 pm
Hi Rachel, I had my circumcision 18 months ago now. I have not lost any sensitive as yet. I love the fact that I am now cut. I was not really convinced about the op, as it was done for medical reason. I am glad I had it done now.
Gavin C
16/7/2022 01:34:34 pm
Sorry, Natasha but don't you mean low circumcision? A high-tight circumcision removes all of the foreskin.
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Peter & Natasha
17/7/2022 02:43:46 pm
Hey Gavin. A high circumcision retains more inner skin - the most sensitive bit. That’s one of the reasons we gave our boys high circumcisions.
Danny
12/5/2020 09:00:26 am
Hi Pete and Natasha. Would you have been upset if your boys had been given a low and tight cut? Do you think low and tight reduces sexual pleasure whereas high and tight doesn't?
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Peter & Natasha
12/5/2020 09:18:39 am
Hi Danny. We would have been very upset if the boys had been given a low cut as we specifically asked for a high cut and the circumciser said he could do that. I find my inner skin pleasingly sensitive so we thought it would be good for them to be circumcised high. I can’t comment on how low cuts feel but I’m sure lots of guys are very happy with their low cut. If they’re a bit less sensitive then I expect it takes them longer to orgasm and that’s a plus. Peter
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Danny
12/5/2020 09:25:04 am
Do you think circumcision should be mandatory at birth or do you think it should be the parents choice to make? What would you have done if we had the same law as Iceland which bans male circumcision without a medical need?
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Peter
12/5/2020 10:58:05 am
Although we are big proponents of infant circumcision I don’t think it should be mandatory - I’m not mad on making too many laws about things. But it would be good if it became standard for parents to be offered it when boys are born.
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Aaron
12/5/2020 11:01:08 am
You’re both very brave having your kids circumcised given the huge anti circumcision movement. It must be something you’re both passionate about. What is your message to people who tell you you’ve mutilated your children and impaired their sexual experience when they grow up?
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Natasha & Peter
12/5/2020 12:08:54 pm
Hey Aaron. Thanks for your message. Quite a few people have called us brave over the years but we don’t see it that way. We made a decision that we felt was right for good reasons of tradition and health. People have often said they disagreed with us though very few have said we mutilated them. To those serious intactivists (like my sister) we cite the benefits of health and hygiene and we point out that it can be a more serious op if performed later in life. The idea of impairing their sexual enjoyment doesn’t add up. Lots of guys circumcised as adults say sex improved afterwards. Sex improved for both Pete and myself after his revision. We know reasons of tradition won’t persuade people so we tend not to mention that to them. But the intactivists won’t change their mind so we usually agree to disagree. We finally managed a truce with my sister after about a year of her criticism. Though when she comes round we usually go nude so she still gets to see all the lads’ circumcisions 😂 Tash xx
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Danny
12/5/2020 12:07:09 pm
What do you think are the 5 main benefits of circumcision?
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Peter
12/5/2020 05:22:18 pm
Tradition, hygiene, health, sexual (last longer), appearance. Not necessarily in that order. And probably in a different order depending on whether I’m talking about my circumcision or our kids’. Appearance may be top for me. Tradition is probably top for why we had the boys circumcised. Add to that the fact that infant circumcision removes the need for later medical attention (eg for phimosis).
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Danny
13/5/2020 11:06:15 am
Do you both consider yourselves circumsexuals? Are you sexually aroused by circumcised dicks? Or is it just you rate the benefits very highly?
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Peter
13/5/2020 11:12:02 am
Hi Danny. With our boys it’s very much the benefits and tradition. If we see other circumcised people on naturist sites then I think there is a common bond and we like to make contact.
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Jason
14/5/2020 01:16:54 pm
Hey Pete and Tash!
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Peter & Natasha
14/5/2020 01:23:37 pm
Hi Jason. That’s great that you’re circumcised. Do you like being the odd one out amongst your mates? I know I do!
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Jason
16/5/2020 10:46:40 pm
Be the odd one out is awesome - particularly given it means I’ve got the superior cut cock.
Peter & Natasha
16/5/2020 10:57:18 pm
Hi Jason. Great to hear from you. As you say, us circumcisees have superior penises - it’s great that we stand out from the crowd.
Aaron
14/5/2020 09:17:17 pm
Hi Pete & Tash.
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Peter & Natasha
14/5/2020 09:36:35 pm
Hi Aaron. I saw some of the skin after my revision. No, we didn’t keep the boys’ foreskins. The best thing to do with a foreskin is to get rid of it as quickly as possible in our opinion!
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Chris
15/5/2020 06:44:07 pm
Hi, Pete and Natasha, as a RIC (my story is just before yours) I laud you for taking care of your sons’ foreskins when they were born. It is the right and proper thing to do. As you remark the best thing to do with a foreskin is throw it in the trash. Keep well!
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Peter & Natasha
15/5/2020 08:31:34 pm
Hi Chris. We love your circumcision story! Thanks for your kind comments - we know we did the right thing in circumcising our boys. All the best, P & N
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Aaron
17/5/2020 10:44:23 pm
Do you use moisturiser on your bellend? If it’s more than 40 years since your circ you’ll likely be dry, keratinised and numb due to rubbing against clothing.
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Peter
17/5/2020 10:50:41 pm
Hi Aaron. I use moisturiser occasionally on my glans penis but not that often. It is not especially dry. And it’s certainly not numb. I have a lot of very pleasurable sensations in it, though I guess it is less sensitive than if I’d have a foreskin all these years. But maybe that’s why I can last for ages. Pete
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David
20/5/2020 11:17:07 am
Peter have you or your son's ever been asked for advice by those who are approaching a circumcision or are considering getting one?
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Peter
20/5/2020 11:27:12 am
Hi David. Last year two people we met on holiday chose to get circumcised. One was a 17yo boy who we have known (with his family) for years. He was talking to our eldest about how he thought his circumcised penis looked so much nicer than his with a foreskin. Our son told him to ask his parents for a circumcision. He plucked up the courage and his parents were happy to oblige. They were worried that he might get it done after he’d left home and go to the cheapest place whereas they were concerned that he went to a reputable place.
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Henry
24/5/2020 02:49:45 pm
Hi Natasha. First thing to say I love your brazeness over the T shirts years ago. Go online and you will see a photo of a smiling cute Jewish lady saying on her top she only dates cut guys. My experience of talking about circumcision with women is that it is no big deal( ref an American lady and my Indonesian ex) to very strange looks elsewhere ( ref a Swedish and recently a Chinese lady). What they all have had in common over the years has been indifference. Would you say a woman care less for the appearance of a cock than what it is attached to??? Henry
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Natasha
25/5/2020 09:37:42 am
Hey Henry. Thanks for your message. Sorry it’s taken me a bit of time to reply. Of course the person is more important than the penis - I’d love Pete even if he was uncircumcised. But I’m very glad he isn’t! From the very beginning I loved the fact that his glans penis was always exposed. I would always think of it being nice and nude inside his clothes when we were out.
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Henry
26/5/2020 04:17:57 pm
Hi Tash. Thanks for your kind, considered response. It's good that when it comes to circumcision there have been parallels between your family and mine. We have achieved passing on a tradition to our sons though we did it at different ages and in my case with a different culture. I hope you and your teenagers enjoyed your time on a nudist beach; I was on one on Bank Holiday Monday taking in the fantastic weather and skinny dipping in the bracing North Sea while social distancing. Take care, Henry.
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Natasha
26/5/2020 04:28:56 pm
Hey Henry. Good to hear from you. No problem at all for me to respond - always happy to talk circumcision! It’s so good that we’ve passed down this great tradition.
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Henry
28/5/2020 04:45:20 pm
Hi Tash. I hope Pete doesn't mind me having this conversation with you!! Some people can be quite possessive and see things which are not there. I think your marriage sounds secure.
Natasha
28/5/2020 05:35:58 pm
Hey Henry. Pete doesn’t mind at all! We are both cool with people asking either of us about circumcision (and nudity).
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Henry
29/5/2020 05:20:24 pm
Hi Tash. Many thanks for your chats. As the mum of three teenagers, I'm sure your life must be busy as I well remember with my own two boys.
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Natasha
30/5/2020 10:19:40 am
Hey Henry. Good to hear from you. Pete was advised to shave for his revision though he already was anyway. I have very substantial pubes and I was advised to trim them before my first labour so I shaved the lot off and did the same for numbers 2 & 3 as well.
Henry
31/5/2020 06:27:09 pm
Hi Tash and Pete
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Natasha & Peter
2/6/2020 04:54:33 pm
Hey Henry. Glad you had a lovely day. We’re fascinated to know who the journalist is though I know you wouldn’t want to put her name on a public site. We had a good time too, though no conversations about the lads’ circumcisions this time.
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Henry
3/6/2020 10:36:49 am
Hi the two of you. I'll let you know the name on Pete's private email. Please keep the name to yourself and make no contact please; mum is the word. Henry
Cut
3/6/2020 12:08:58 am
I was circumcised at age of 21. I always had very long and redundant prepuce which was slightly tight in erections. It could really overhang in flaccid state. I had a few inflammations under my foreskin even with daily showering. My father has never taught me to pull back my foreskin at urinals, so I was peeing literally into my foreskin like a balloon. Once it was stuck behind my glans during masturbation what I had to put back myself. I was so ashamed that I haven't told it to anyone. Then I have caught an infection in the swimming pool, so there was a discharge in my foreskin, but then it was healed by itself. It was so embarrasing when I have collected to courage to ask about it from my GP when I was there for a different health issue. He wanted to have a look at it and he asked me to pull it back by myself. He said my foreskin was long, but there was nothing wrong with it as long as it goesback, so if I could lose weight my foreskin will be slightly shorter on my penis. But when I have told him about pain during erections and how my frenulum was torn during a sexual intercourse, he has suggested to get cut as steroid cream won't help in my case. I knew about circumcision from a very young age and I knew I will need it since age of 13. He said it can not be done under NHS as it counts as a cosmetic surgery, but he has referred me to a specialist in London. I have been cut a few days later when I have told about my problems to my dad. He was very supportive, but he has asked me a few times if I have changed my mind. The private clinic was mostly for Muslim families, so lots of Arabic, Turkish and Pakistanian families brought their sons. They have made one surgery every 15-20 minutes. It was weird as I was the only adult and white man there. They were very supportive and they have asked me what style I want. He suggested ultra low and moderately tight as I had such a big amount of foreskin. He has made marks with a pencil of my doomed skin, He has also asked me about the removal of my frenulum, what I have agreed. He has convinced me it will look better. I have given my lidocain shots. So he has completly excised it then he has started my circumcsion. My sharpei looking foreskin is gone and I have never missed it. The only time I ha concerns, when somebody has joked about my dick if I am Jewish while I could hear them. in the locker room of my gym Rude. Funny enough when I have visited Israel or the USA or any Muslim countries years later, I have felt I have become a member of a larger group. But Israel was the only place when I have stayed at a traditional hotel, so the receptionist has asked directly my faith and if I am circumcised. It was more than weird as you don't ask such questions, but it was related to some traditions and social distancing.
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Henry
3/6/2020 10:48:55 am
Hi. Is your friend now circumcised? I would have thought he would have been cut before his sons were born. Were the sons cut at birth? In Turkey? In Turkey the tradition is for boys to be cut before they reach puberty and is a public occasion. I know this as I've been to this great country. Does your friend keep to Muslim traditions of not eating pork or drinking alcohol( the more secular Turks don't bother with the latter). Henry
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Cut
3/6/2020 11:20:16 pm
Yeah, he is circumcised. They have moved to Turkey later, where his sons were born and circumcised at the hospital. Not every boy gets a posh celebration as neonatal circumcision is also an option. And since they are a mixed couple, they believed this is the right choice.
Peter & Natasha
3/6/2020 01:50:20 pm
Hi Cut. That’s a really interesting story. I’m glad you got your circumcision sorted. Interesting what you say about that father-in-law wanting to witness the circumcision. Our daughter wants her future husband to be circumcised and we will happily pay for him to have the procedure performed by a reputable surgeon but we won’t ask to be present at the operation (though we would happily attend if they wanted us to). All the best, Peter
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Cut
3/6/2020 11:49:27 pm
I always considered my foreskin problems some kind of test of my faith. I knew about Judaism or Muslim religion, but I have never believed once I will be circumcised like them. Then puberty has hit me and it looks like God or nature had a funny game with my body. I wish I was not a shy coward young man for years as I have wasted my teenager years as a virgin in shame. You know other guys have made a competition who had the most partner. I would strongly suggest every guy to ask for help. My whole circumcision was like an initation into manhood. It was weird that two other men were touching, pulling, injecting, sewing my penis which was never touched by unknown people before. I was worried how it will look like after healing. But then all my worries have gone when I have gently masturbated first time around day 10-12. I still remember it years later. That was the moment I have realized it was a good decision. My positive body image was restored and my active love life has started like. The only disadvantage is that it is really visible, so I am still a minority in the locker rooms. My circumcision scar is really low, but the area is very sensitive. Sometimes it has feot like a "phantom foreskin" for the first few weeks. The touching of that area has felt it was scratching my foreskin. So I am sure the senstivity has not decreased as nerves can regenerate. My wife loves my cut state and she loves "circumcising" me with her tongue during oral sex. So all together I haven't regretted at all, just I wish I have done it at age 13-14. My son is 5 years old and he was also circumcised at the same clinic with the Plastibell. A few friends of my wife has asked their number after they have seen him naked during bathing or nappy change. My friend has even joked about it that both of us have grown up uncut, then we have both turned circumcised men as adults..
JamesW
11/9/2022 05:22:14 am
Your daughter is smart to insist on her husband being circumcised - my boyfriend (now husband) insisted on me being circumcised like he is before making things official and I'm glad he did - sex is so much better!
Peter & Natasha
4/6/2020 07:42:57 pm
Hi Cut. Don’t worry about being in the minority in the locker room. It’s good to stand out sometimes. We all like the fact that we look different to others. Circumcision is something to be proud of. And well done for having your son circumcised. P
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Hi Cut. May I endorse Pete and Tash's comments. Well done for having your son circumcised as a baby, the right time for this procedure. Why did you choose Plastibell? Did the procedure achieve complete exposure? Have any of your wife's friends had their sons now cut? Regards, Henry
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Cut
7/6/2020 12:54:42 am
Circumcision is such a subject what men hardly talk about it, but both gender are interested. Maybe it is more discussed between women as they are more open about sex. I believe men have a brief look on each other's private, but they will rarely comment it when you reach a certain mature thinking. I have never been that type who is happy to shower naked in front of anyone. My family was really old fashioned about this subject and this education was missing. I have shy bladder anyway, so I can hardly pee at urinals when people are standing around me or they are waiting behind me. I have tried to "train" myself at pubkic spaces, but I have felt really uncortable until I haven't gone into stall. Maybe it was because of my long and overhanging foreskin, I don't know. Shyness has still stayex after my circumcision, but my body image, my confidence has definately improved.
Peter & Natasha
7/6/2020 11:03:38 am
Cut, that’s all so interesting. We actually talk about circumcision a lot and will bring it into conversation quite often. Circumcision is something that defines us as a family and we like people to know how important it is to us.
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Henry
7/6/2020 04:39:22 pm
Hi Cut. Your experiences of circumcision have been similar to mine in that I too grew up in a family where penises were not talked about. Indeed there were never any discussions about genitals, even from one of my sisters who became a nurse. At about the age of 10 I remember a good friend spoke about having a tight foreskin and he mentioned that he was concerned that following a visit to our surgery he might be circumcised. I listened with interest but I have a feeling nothing went ahead. We never spoke about it after.
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Cut
7/6/2020 10:45:58 pm
Sexual education was a weak point in my family. My mother has checked me at bathing times, but my father has never told me the foreskin should be pulled back at peeing. I was never thinking of it and it would have looked weird in front of anyone even if nobody would have a look at it.
Aaron
21/7/2020 09:50:28 pm
What will happen if your daughter meets Mr Right one day and he is uncut and refuses to get his foreskin snipped off? If she thinks he is perfect in every other way would she accept his foreskin or dump him?
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Peter & Natasha
22/7/2020 10:38:39 am
Hi Aaron. Well she’s quite adamant at the moment that her husband would have to be circumcised! But she’s 15 and may moderate her opinion in due course. Having said that I wouldn’t put it past her to persuade a bloke to get circumcised. She has persuaded quite a few teenagers at naturist sites to ditch their clothes so she may be able to persuade a nam to get circumcised as well!
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Andrew
13/9/2020 10:21:59 am
Hi Peter,
Peter
13/9/2020 02:52:49 pm
Hi Andrew. No that’s not me. It’s just some photos that the site managers chose to use.
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Andrew
13/9/2020 04:14:26 pm
Thanks for the quick reply Peter. Are there any pictures of your tightly cut tool on this site? Which beach were you at? I am north west based and know of one on the north coast of Wales.
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Peter
13/9/2020 04:43:24 pm
No, no pictures of us here. We’ve been on naturist websites and in H & E but not for many years. You’ve got to watch it with employers.
Peter
15/10/2020 08:05:44 am
Today is the Silver Jubilee of my second circumcision. It has given Natasha and I so much pleasure. If anyone out there wants a circumcision or a revision but is dithering about it I urge you very strongly to get it sorted with a reputable circumciser. Circumcision is a wonderful procedure and you will wish that you’d had it sooner. We’re turning the heating up today and spending the day nude. Natasha has posted on social media about it. Truly a day for celebration!
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Aaron
16/10/2020 08:46:27 am
Are you on Facebook/Twitter/Instagram?
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Peter
16/10/2020 08:48:53 am
Hi Aaron. I’m not doing any social media with anyone on here I’m afraid! Was there something you wanted to ask me? Peter
David
16/10/2020 09:12:29 pm
Hi Peter, me and my son got circumcisied last year, and apparently according to him, loads of his mates want to get cut, they think it looks nicer, do your sons find that circumcision is becoming popular among their peers?
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Peter
16/10/2020 10:21:06 pm
Hi David. Congratulations to you and your son on getting circumcised. How old is your son and was it his or your decision?
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David
16/10/2020 10:49:43 pm
Hi Peter, my son was 14 when we were cut, it was my decision, my second wife wanted me to get circumcised, so i booked an appointment, when I spoke to my son about it and he asked if he could get it done too.
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Peter
16/10/2020 10:58:43 pm
That’s great news. Your wife sounds very sensible! And a great decision to make for your son.
Jon
6/2/2021 07:08:07 pm
I have for some time wondered if I am low or high cut, having read the various comments here, I am still not sure. I am also not sure if I have my frenulum but I think I do having looked at cock online, how do you know if you have a frenulum?. When soft, I can pull the skin over my bellend completely covering it but cant do this when hard. When soft, my circumcision scar sits just behind the bellend. Any help identifying whether I'm low or high cut would be appreciated. I was cut as as baby in the 60's. Peter, I very much enjoyed reading your story.
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Peter & Natasha
7/2/2021 03:03:05 pm
Hi Jon. Your frenulum is like a string attached to the underside of your penis which commences at the groove of your glans penis. Where is your scar when you are erect? The nearer to the glans penis, the lower the cut. I’m glad you liked our story - thank you for reading it. Peter
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Jon
7/2/2021 03:27:33 pm
Hi Peter. Thank you for your reply. I do have my frenulum after all, I guess its down to the surgeon to decide to remove or leave? I will need to check where my scar is next time I get erect, which isnt very often these days!
Peter & Natasha
7/2/2021 03:32:28 pm
Hi Jon. If one has a medical circumcision on the NHS then usually the doctor has his/her own method and you don’t get a choice in style. But if you elect to have a circumcision and go to a good specialist circumciser then you should be able to get the style you desire. So I had my frenulum removed when I was 20 because I wanted to, and our sons had theirs removed at their infant circumcisions as that was what we requested. P
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Jon
7/2/2021 07:33:39 pm
Hi Peter and Natasha. I hope it's ok to ask you more questions. I have never had a conversation about circumcision with anyone but have done a lot of research. I am intrigued to know why at the age of 20 you wanted your frenulum removed. I'm sure at that age I'd not heard of a frenulum let alone wanted it removed. I have read some anti-circ sites where they bang on about loss of sensitivity when cut. I have extremely high sensitivity, even after being cut for 56 years, and quite frankly wouldnt want to be anymore sensitive so pleased I am cut if this is true. Was sensitivity part of your desicion to remove the frenulum?
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Peter & Natasha
11/2/2021 02:13:40 pm
Hi Jon. Sorry for delay in replying. Hey, you can ask us whatever you want - we love going on this site! I had my frenulum removed when I was 20 purely because I preferred the look without it. It was nothing to do with sensitivity. In fact, my sensitivity improved after the operation.
Jon
11/2/2021 07:49:56 pm
Hi Pete. Thanks. Just one last question for now. I was just wondering if that's you and your sons in the pictures on your story? or does the website add their own pictures.
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Natasha & Peter
12/2/2021 01:19:39 pm
Hi Jon. No, that’s not us. I’d love to be (Natasha and I were in H & E several times years ago) but we have to watch it with employers. And the kids are underage (17 & 13).
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Ryan
1/6/2021 07:16:42 pm
Do you think your eldest son will make a post on here once he's of age ?
Peter and Natasha
21/3/2021 09:33:46 pm
Hi Andras. There are very few circumcised guys at the naturist venues we visit. They are generally family-orientated places and the demographic is fairly young. Circumcision seems to be performed less and less for medical reasons nowadays and most people within the age range wouldn’t have been born at a time when infant circumcision was common. We are sometimes the only circumcised people there.
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Alas, Hungary is a non-circumcising country too, nevertheless, when I was at the nudist beach here, I could see a few cut men and boys. Not too much, of course. I have girls, but my godson, who was circumcised as a schoolboy says, he was teased a lot at school. but was more of a teasing than bullying.
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Peter & Natasha
22/3/2021 02:46:50 pm
Yes, what the boys have received is definitely teasing rather than bullying. They are not embarrassed about being circumcised at all - they are dedicated naturists.
Peter and Natasha
23/3/2021 03:14:16 pm
Phimosis should always be treated by circumcision in our opinion. Though of course if the boy is circumcised at birth then phimosis will never be a problem!
Peter & Natasha
1/6/2021 10:34:53 pm
Hi Ryan. Our eldest is now 18 and feee to post here and elsewhere but I think he is not that interested, despite being very pro-circumcision.
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Peter & Natasha
2/6/2021 12:12:34 pm
Hi Ryan. Our eldest is now 18 and I’ve mentioned this site and others (Intercirc, Acucullophilia) to him. He’s said he might but I doubt he will - I don’t think it’s his thing. Shame really as he’s very pro-circumcision. P
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Indeed. This young man (my godson) is very procircumcision and he wants to have his future sons circumcised at birth. His elder brother chose to be circumcised at 26, for a light phimosis. He is very happy too. (I know both guys since birth and I helped the elder one by referring him to my circumcisor.)
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Peter & Natasha
23/3/2021 03:24:27 pm
How excellent that they are both pro-circumcision and want to pass on the benefits to the next generation. They must never let anyone try and persuade them otherwise - we received a lot of criticism when we had our boys circumcised but we took no notice - we knew we were doing the right thing. I’ll take a look at your website later. P
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Andras
23/3/2021 03:45:23 pm
Indeed. The elder brother has a young son (6 y.o.) and he wants the boy circumcised sooner than later.
Dave USA
28/3/2021 08:38:25 pm
Hi Pete,
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Dave USA
28/3/2021 08:42:21 pm
*revision scheduled next month. (Autocorrect typo in previous post)
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Peter & Natasha
29/3/2021 05:08:09 pm
Good luck Dave. We’d love to hear how it went as well.
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Andras
29/3/2021 08:12:27 pm
Indeed, it is a lifetime gift from the father to the son, as well as a very strong bond. My father and grandfather were circumcised for medical reason, but I was not. As a child I saw both of them, but I did not realize what it was and they did not mention it.
Dave USA
30/3/2021 01:41:13 pm
Will do! I can’t wait to get the scar lines reduced and tighten up my cut. The urologist wasn’t that concerned with aesthetics, which sounds a lot like your UK NHS circumcisions.
Andrew
1/9/2021 12:53:04 am
For Dave (USA) - I think you did a great thing getting your boys circumcised - The Mogen clamp can give a really neat result done in infancy
Peter & Natasha
30/3/2021 01:51:24 pm
It will be good for you to get your circumcision tight. I’m very glad that your sons are tight.
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Dave USA
30/3/2021 06:33:38 pm
It’s so funny to me that the teasing I got for being uncut is the opposite of what you and your sons get for being cut.
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Peter & Natasha
3/4/2021 06:40:01 am
Hi Dave. I don’t know if there are any teasing moments that stand out from the others. I think when I realised that girls in my year at the neighbouring girls’ school realised I was circumcised was a moment I greatly enjoyed. Our boys say the same - they’ve never been embarrassed about being circumcised or bothered by the teasing. At the end of the day, the teasing means that their circumcisions are being noticed and that is a good thing.
Dave USA
4/4/2021 04:41:01 am
Cheers to that Peter. Always great when the circumcisions are getting noticed.
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Aussie
13/7/2021 12:58:52 am
I grew up in Australia in the 1970s and '80s surrounded by guys with tight circumcisions, and hating my foreskin.
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Peter & Natasha
13/7/2021 02:01:16 pm
Hi Aussie. Thanks for your post. We’re so pleased that you finally got circumcised. You can always get a revision to make it tighter!
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Mick
3/8/2021 01:13:48 pm
Hey Pete n Tash, I’m about to turn 18 next week and have had enough of being uncut. It’s unattractive and stinks… any last minute advice or experience before I share? Cheers
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Peter & Natasha
4/8/2021 06:57:46 am
Hi Mick. That’s great that you want to be circumcised and are going to do something about it. Make sure you find a really good circumciser who will give you the style you want. And make sure you know what style you want. Do you know that yet? I love having a very tight circumcision. Peter
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Mick
4/8/2021 09:10:38 am
Definitely High and tight, what is your style
Peter & Natasha
9/8/2021 08:44:08 am
Hi Mick. I’m quite high and drum-tight. Our sons are high and drum-tight.
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Mick
9/8/2021 03:05:10 pm
Would you recommend high and drum-tight? Do you have a email where I can discuss further?
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Cooper
23/8/2021 10:52:51 pm
Thanks for sharing your story Peter & Natasha.
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Peter & Natasha
24/8/2021 04:38:56 pm
Hi Cooper. Thanks for your lovely comments. Natasha’s certainly cool - not so sure about myself…
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Peter & Natasha
15/10/2021 07:46:11 am
Today is the anniversary of my second circumcision and frenulum removal. We always celebrate this (and indeed those of our sons). Natasha and I have already celebrated it in the best way possible 😋. She has posted on social media about it. And we are having a big nude dinner later with a couple of friends round. Do any of you celebrate your circumcision anniversaries? Pete xx
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Peter & Natasha
10/4/2022 07:58:52 am
Hi Jack. Good to hear from you. Funnily enough today is our elder son’s circumcision anniversary - we had him circumcised 19 years ago today when he was a couple of weeks old. Natasha has posted about it on social media and he and his girlfriend are having a couple of friends round later to celebrate. Our other son’s circumcision anniversary is in a few weeks so he’s looking forward to that. Peter x
Jason
12/4/2022 12:57:19 am
Hey Peter & Natasha,
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Peter & Natasha
13/4/2022 07:50:42 am
Hey Jason. We think circumcisions are as important to celebrate as birthdays. Circumcision is a lifetime gift that has so many benefits and that deserves to be remembered and publicised. So yes, go ahead and celebrate it.
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David
12/4/2022 09:35:44 pm
Male circumcision is the eldest surgical procedure and most commonly performed surgical procedure in the world. Throughout history billions of men have been circumcised for religious, cultural , belief and personal reasons and has therefore past clinical trials! Therefore it is not acceptable to define Male Circumcision as Male Genital Mutilation. Any individual who is circumcised and is receiving negative comments directly or indirectly for example online or in the media especially young people are victims of CIRCUMPHOBIA In the United Kingdom this could be reported as non defined hate crime due to fact that it can cause distress to individual who is circumcised You would not find it acceptable to make negative comments about individuals disability or skin colour.
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Peter & Natasha
13/4/2022 07:56:46 am
Hey David. That’s a very good point you make. I guess that some people could say that as infant circumcision is a choice made by parents then it is fine to criticise that choice and say that the parents have mutilated their sons. But that is, of course, rubbish. Circumcision is totally beneficial in every way. Certainly, circumcised guys shouldn’t have to endure unpleasant bullying in the locker rooms, though some teasing is fine - after all, it is good that circumcisions are noticed. Our boys (and indeed Peter when he was at school) have never minded the laughing and comments from other boys.
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David
13/4/2022 10:16:40 am
HI Natasha
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Peter & Natasha
13/4/2022 10:51:47 am
David, you are totally correct. And mutilation is such a strong word as well. A circumcised penis has been changed, not mutilated. Mutilation suggests something awful, harmful and destructive, whereas circumcision is quite the opposite: beautiful, beneficial.
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David
5/5/2022 01:06:31 pm
I admire your determination and tenacity to carry on your family tradition especially since male circumcision is not offered to parents at maternity wards at NHS Hospitals.
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Peter & Natasha
11/5/2022 08:59:15 pm
Hey Dave. Peter decided he wanted his sons circumcised when he was about 12 or 13. I loved his circumcised penis from the outset and actually suggested circumcising future sons before he mentioned it to me. There was just never any doubt for us. All the criticism, all the attempted persuasion from others, it never once made us doubt our decision. We were, and always have been totally open to everyone that the boys (and Peter) are circumcised.
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Paul D
13/5/2022 11:16:48 pm
Hi Pete and Natasha
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Peter & Natasha
15/5/2022 10:25:57 pm
Hey Paul. So many guys who get circumcised as adults wish they had it done years earlier. I think if you want it tighter then you should get re-circumcised. Get a really good surgeon, take measurements of your flaccid and erect penis so they can gauge how much skin to remove so that’s it’s really tight when erect. That way there shouldn’t be any problem with your penis being pulled inside your body.
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ConorM
18/6/2022 08:27:04 pm
I was circumcised two years ago as well. So very happy with the result and wish my parents had circumcised me as an infant (my two brothers were) so I could have enjoyed circumcision from an earlier age. Natasha is right on taking measurements. I'm a grower too and asked my circumciser for a high and tight cut. He was able to measure my maximum length correctly (and base skin tension) to get the look right for me. He did such a good job and I love the permanent exposure of my head (which has since flared out more). Don't forget to remove the frenulum for the complete bare look (and it works better with a higher cut). I posted some pictures in The Showers last year. Good luck!
Paul d
4/2/2023 12:27:15 am
Hi Pete and Natasha.
swerty
10/7/2022 01:17:09 pm
Finland circumcision rare.2% boy cut.Sauna naked culture.
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Peter & Natasha
4/2/2023 07:07:57 am
Hi Paul D. Don’t worry about getting an erection at naturist sites. If you get one, so what? You can always lie on your front for a bit or go in the sea if you feel self-conscious about it though we don’t see anything wrong with what is a natural state. I never hide an erection at naturist sites, and I quite often have one in the morning. Our 15-yo son had an almost permanent erection on holiday in Spain last year. It’s normal so don’t worry about it.
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Paul D
28/2/2023 01:20:39 pm
Very exited to share that i am booked in wed 8th mar for concultation for getting circumcision tightened up!
Finn
29/7/2022 11:17:19 pm
Fun fact, everybody. Peter is a troll.
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Peter & Natasha
11/9/2022 03:48:13 pm
Well I’ve just seen this. I’m afraid you’re talking rubbish.
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Finn
14/9/2022 02:10:51 pm
Well, I wasn't expecting you to say that I was right in what I was saying!
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Max
27/12/2022 11:09:04 pm
Hi Peter, have you seen your sons’ circumcisions recently? Did they turn out the way you had hoped?Did there end up being any bunching when they are soft and is the scar as high as you’d have liked? Has your daughter ever seen them so she knows what a proper circumcision looks like?
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Peter & Natasha
4/2/2023 06:54:18 am
Hi Max. Yes, we see our sons’ circumcisions often as we are nudists and tend to be naked at home if it’s warm enough, which it hasn’t been so much recently. But we always bump up the heating over Christmas and spend the festive season nude. Their circumcisions still look extremely tight. There is no bunching at all and their scars are halfway along their shafts. Our daughter sees their penises regularly (and mine) due to our nude lifestyle so she certainly knows what a proper circumcision looks like!
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Max
1/5/2023 09:46:22 am
I’m glad that your daughter has been exposed to your sons’ tightly circumcised penises. Did you somehow show her that their undersides are smooth where the messy looking frenulum would have been? I think it’s important to circumcise the frenulum completely. Do your sons have any remnants of the frenulum or just a neat scar? Are their glans very flared?
Max
1/5/2023 02:10:48 pm
Hey Peter&natasha, did you ever take photos of your sons circumcisions? I noticed you said you celebrate their circumcision date annually. I think it would be a good idea to have photos taken of their circumcised members and kept in an album to show others what a proper tightly circumcised penis looks like during development
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Andy Williams
26/7/2023 10:13:41 am
I too am circumcised and got it done in 2008 at the age of 26 and prefer it better than uncircumcised, the only disadvantage is that I get spontaneous erections without any reason to!
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DAVID
28/12/2023 04:43:45 pm
Hi Peter & Natasha
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